I'm impressed. You've really detached yourself from H. I still get "sucked in" into H's drama on occasion. Perhaps I wouldn't if there was more daily distance.
You could be describing my H in this last post! Scary!!!
You are right, you do need to make it crystal clear that you are separated. AS in no longer the person who when told to jump, asks "How high?" More than likely, this will take him a long time to process.
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
