Livnlearn, read your posts, and I agree with you...you don't want H back because he is jealous or his supply of OW have vanished. My ex-bf went back to his ex-w, and while it was clear she was only jealous of our R (they were divorced when we met) he went back anyway. He just could not help himself. But nothing changed, and after countless times of him being kicked to the curb again, he left for good (again). This went on for 2.5 years, and guess what...now he is going through the same depression, has the same anxieties about not being with his teenage son full-time, and this time it is worse because he is kicking himself for going back and being duped again. She didn't want him back because she loved him...she went back to seeing other guys...again. So only give it another shot if you are sure he wants back for the right reasons, not because it is in his best interest and his alone. Personally, I am of the opinion if they want you back, they will no matter what...I would be careful too about sharing info about your R with someone else. Keep that info for when you really want to share it and with good reason. Good luck.
