You talk about what is stolen from you, LnL. I agree! But, they steal more than just a family. Sometimes, even your good memories are stolen because they're tainted with what they have done and said to you and the OW. My H totally destroyed all my wonderful memories of my wedding day because I read how if she had been there, he would've pushed me aside and married her. How does one get over that? I don't know.
I have gone through the children's old clothes many times over the years, and it always brings back memories of times with them. Mostly wonderful ones, despite what I'm going through now.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim