I realise more and more I spent too much time and energy trying to keep everyone happy. And I just found out that in any case, you can't keep all of the people happy all of the time!
My internet connection was down the last few days, so I was forced to do something more constructive than just sit at the computer for hours on end, LOL!
I had a quiet weekend. Older guy and I went out for the day on Sunday. But he is sweet on me, and it is making me uncomfortable. Drat.
D came home quite early on Monday (national holiday here) and later H called and said he was sorry he didn't check that I would be home to receive her, but fortunately I was.
He asked me what I did at the weekend, and I just answered, this and that. True!
Otherwise not a peep from him.
I know that if I don't pursue the matter, he will not tell me when he wants D over the vacations until about a week before he thinks he will have her, ie: sometime in August. So I have to work on the wording of an email to him about this. I really wish that every interaction wasn't a major negotiation or duel, but that's the reality. I am coming to accept that. My H is who he is, and he hasn't changed!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
