I do feel a lot better, especially after I have taken the medicine, though it wears off just before I have to take it again! I have managed to reschedule my lessons to later this week, so that's OK.
I have just ordered a copy of Sam Vaknin's book Malignant Self-Love: Narcissism Revisited. Here are some reviews of the book -
As for the visitation issue, the bottom line is, the only time I have during the year to carry out work on my personal project in my country of origin is the four weeks when H has D visit him in the summer. I can't think of a reason why H shouldn't have her for a straight four weeks really, can you? Even his excuse that he can't get work done applies equally to me, don't you think? And why did I only think of that point yesterday, for heaven's sake?
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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates