I just want to add, that when I asked H to tell me when he wanted D this summer I asked him to send me an email about it. That way I would be able to pin him down and have it in writing, right?
So what does H say?
No, I don't want to put it down in an email, I think it would be better to meet and discuss this in person.
I am giving him first pick - he just has to email me, but that's not possible?
I can only imagine that he doesn't want to commit himself in writing or that he wants to be able to fish for info about what I might be doing this summer, although I honestly don't even know yet!
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates