Hi, It was on your post that I found links that finally gave me some release. Please post about this. I am still hanging in there by a thread but realize much like you that there is nothing to hang for. Life is all about him and his needs. When I am positive that nothing absolutely nothing about him can change then I will leave. I read your info here and can identify needs in my life to address then... So, YES, keep posting on this subject. Thank you. It helps lots.