I tried to respond on your last thread but it was locked.
I've read with interest some of the sites about NPD. I'm pleased that you've discovered something that seems to be helping you understand your h better.
If you remember ages and ages ago I said that your h was very like mine. Wel my h has a PD too not NPD but borderline. There are some good sites on that too. I know for sure that they helped me.
As for your d she's still very young yet. Of course there will be some of your h's personality in her. I smiled when I read your post (sorry) because I recognised some of the things I've been through with my eldest. I could just imagine her trying to kick you. Anyway, I'v elearned so much since coming to this site and you'll know this already, but you can apply dbing techniques to your d too and they will help you big time. One of the best things I've learned is to detach. My son really upset me the other day but we sorted it all out much quicker than we would have done before I came to this site.
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