Lillie, I reserved that book and then forgot to go pick it up. Ah the joys of being forgetful!
I will look into again as well as the UL book..you've got me curious on that one, too.
H wouldn't have a problem with the Jewish part so much as the sex part, LOL. I think he will scream if he sees another sex book on the nightstand.. Also, he would wholeheartedly agree with the part about a man not being whole and that ML to your wife is the closest you can get to God. He has probably spouted off something similar to that, before. See, my husband is really good at talking but much less talented at the DOING.
Lillie, have you ever asked him to do something just for you..that does not involve or require an erection? What was his response to that?
I am trying to get better at asking for what I want and need. Not waiting until after the moment is gone and then bringing it up in a "you shoulda..." way, but pouncing on the opportunity right then and there for him to do something to please me and to let him inside my head and see what it is that I need.