I bet a lot of LD/ND get annoyed at their spouses desire and probably think it's all about horniness from them and not about yourselves. Well the truth is that yes most HD's generate desire without the aid of the LD spouse. I always desire my spouse, even when she treats me like crap. It can not be turned off. But the fact is that I HAVE turned it to her exclusively. I have given it to her and gave her complete trust in managing it. I did not give it to the lady across the street. Think of it this way, your HD husband has entrusted one of the most precious things in his life, his desire, and he relys upon you to take good care of it. It is the ultimate expression of trust!
