Hi HP,
Sorry to hear you're having to have surgery. I hope it clears everything up and you are set to rights. Been in the hospital myself off and on the last couple of weeks.

I think I have a similar issue with my SO, but w/respect to the internet. His passion for it is so obvious.
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In my head, I have this idea that having a man to desire me is my...birthright or something! It is not a gift, it is my RIGHT.
I know this is screwed up thinking, but I've thought this way so long (do all women?) that it will take time to ditch it.


No, all women don't think this. (Only takes one not to think it to make the statement not true. ) But I think I would benefit from more of this kind of thinking so when you ditch it, toss some of it my way.