So, I am guessing that anything short of him singing Nine Inch Nails "closer" won't make You feel what it is you need to feel. I feel for you honeypot, I do. My husband just doesn't have sex on his mind ( at least not sex with me) very often and then it is often in response to me telling him I need this to feel what ever it is I need to feel. He tries once or twice and then forgets about it. I am not thinking he is ever going to be Mr. Passion. I know that what I want is someone to want me the way Spike wants Buffy. That in your space passion. Someone who would love me like ...what? A movie? Heathcliff and Kathy.
I am not going through my life fighting this. I am trying to find other ways of coping, short of the very convenient lover.
It does make me feel good that he is willing to make the effort for me sometimes.
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Arguing with reality is like trying to teach a cat to bark—hopeless. (Byron Katie)
