There you go HP- You kept pressing for an answer. Pressing. Pressing. Get it? Stop pressing. Accept that he is there with you, accept his email to you. Accept his love for you without making him have to do it YOUR way. How about instead of making him choose which was harder, just say, "sweet heart, I know how hard this been on you to give up lovemaking and I really appreciate how tender and kind and loving you've been."

It's not easy for me to say, but I would give him the WRONG answer sometimes just cause he bugged me so much asking for it.

naughty mel-alone and without a husband


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