I'm struggling with the same thing right now. Mrs GGB is fairly religious and my faith has grown as well. The Catholic church teaches that any ejaculation outside of the women's vagina is sinful unless it was truely accidental. You can do oral, mb or whatever, as long as it ends with intercourse. Yes, MB is a sin. I am struggling really hard with this one because of the frustration level of having a naked and beautiful wife in bed next to you that says not tonight more often than not.
We're attempting NFP now, although I fear we might have screwed up: We ML last night for the first time in a while. I was tired but she was feeling a little randy (that should have set off warning bells). Now she hasn't had a cycle since the baby yet, so we've been tracking temps and mucous and trying to figure out how the NFP applies without a recent cycle history. Earlier this week she got a little bit of blood spotting with a small amount of mucus, prior there had been pretty much no mucus. Well, this morning her temperature stepped up, which if it stays that way tomorrow indicates that she may have ovulated and is her fertile window.....Yikes! i counted back on the calendar, and we are almost exactly the same number of days from delivery as we were when the last one was conceived.
GGB, holding his breath and wondering if he can get used to celibacy, since if MrsGGB is indeed fertile and it takes, she probably won't ever let me near her again.
