HP. I am not being critical of your position on MB or anything other than "normal routine" is wrong. I could not do it without going crazy.
The little SL that we have as a married couple is causing problems and with out any other individual or joint outlets I thinl I would have to live on a deserted island and live like a crazy man. Practicing other forms of sexual release keeps me from getting nutty, mean, or what ever might happen. I have no designs on any other woman as I think cheating is wrong, but nothing but "normal routine" is way too drastic for me.
HP, absolutely no put downs intended, so please don't think I am suggesting you change anything. I am just trying to imply how un happy I would be in your religious state if I were a man or a woman and something happened to my partner that prevented the "normal routine" from happening.
Have you read any of the web sites about ED or some of the female no desire sites? So many sad tales, especially if people would consider some of the aids and techniques available for at least some sexual fullfillment.
After reading some of the sites, Boobs went from being sexy to time bombs just waiting to take a womans life, same with female repoductive organs. Sorry, that last senrence was not intended to depress anyone, just to show people, life has no Guarantees. Maybe some day consider Lill's question or example. I don't think God intended people to hold the Hershey bar and not take a bite when times are tough. KWIM?
HP hope things get back to normal for you and H, and real soon.
