Cally, Ugh. I hate getting into religious convos on a bb, but yes, he (and I) view oral to completion or handjobs as sinful.
Obviously my own convictions about these things are much less strong than his. In fact, if I wasn't married to him, I can say for certain that I would be doing these things. However, I am married to him and my own faith has grown a LOT because of this.
So there is a bit of sick irony in the fact that the only thing that hurts me is actual penetration and that is the only thing that MrHP will do, anyway.
