I know all about those dreams and the pissiness that follows, especially if something wakes me up (as invariably happens) before the dream gets really good. Sometimes it takes me several days to get back out of a pissy mood, and knowing why I am in a pissy mood just make it worse. The weird thing is I wake up mad at her for something that she did or didn't do in my dream (mine usually start out with her doing something drastic like telling me she's decided to become celibate for religious reasons or something like that). What gets me pissy about it is that I can't shake the mad feeling.
As far as the chase goes, hmm that's a tough one. You are right, you can't make him chase you any more than I can make Mrs GGB crave getting boinked (we had a setback this week when she told me that she's been doing "it" mostly to keep me from getting mad...*SIGH*. Sure makes me think twice before even insinuating that I want some).
Perhaps finding a way to increase his reward when he does chase you might entice him to chase more frequently? Trouble is, making the reward something for you too so it doesn't become a trade of whatever for sex (big yuck). Don't ask me how or what though, 'cause if I figured that out, I wouldn't be back here methinks.
--GGB who's been having a wonderful SL in dreamland, but can't remember the good parts and wakes up frustrated.
