I'm going to ask the same question as Choc..."what is it you -- realistically -- want him to do??? Say???"
If there is a certain behavior you are looking for out of him...can you quantify that for us? So that maybe we can help you to help him understand.
Also....just going to throw this one out there for you to think about. Is it possible that in your current, not so happy-go-lucky, ickyish, infectious stage....you're taking your frustration about your discomfort & never-ending infection out towards him?
I mean...to me it seems perfectly plausible (not necessarily reasonable) to be angry w/your H to an extent right now. He's at a stage now where he's more sexual with you, has discussed that with you, tells you he wants it more....and now DAMNIT...YOU can't do it. So why now? Why has he reached this point now? When you can't do it!!!?
See what I mean? I can perfectly understand how you may be taking your frustration out on him.
In other words...if you were able to have sex with him now, as your fully functioning horneypot self....would you still be having a problem?
