Yes, ma'am, I'm currently deaf but I have a goooooooood memory. Besides, being HD or LD is largely in your mind, for us females at least. I doubt there is much hormonal difference between me and my LD sister.

I miss sex. I think about it. I want to be sexual with H, though we can't have intercourse. I need skin contact. I like to look at his beautiful body.

So while there are no flickers of actual desire (or perhaps a more accurate thing to say is that, by now, I have trained myself to not 'go there' since I can't do anything about it), my self image as a sexy person is still alive and well.

And on that note, I'm off to do the dishes. Oooh I bet that statement got all the fellas riled up. LOL

Thanks for the wishes, JJ. My surgery has been scheduled for the 18th and I'd appreciate kind thoughts on the morning of my infectionectomy as our hilarious CN described it.