So sorry about your surgery. That is just TOO much after all you have been through. Will you have to wean with the hosptalization and all? I am starting to work on weaning DD11mos - slowly. We are contemplating #4 and with the recent improvements in the R I am feeling heartened about it. I would love it if H started showing regular, active interest like Mr. HP - still, H is always more interested if we have been having lots of sex - if we skip a couple of days it is all down hill.
