That's awful (the infection). Gosh, I hope this gets it squared away. You certainly don't deserve it. Perhaps it was God's way of getting you to pay attention to the non-sexual parts of your relationship or something (but what a crappy way to do it, eh?). Glad to hear about (and perhaps slightly jealous) the progress you and Mr HP are making. I'm praying for a quick recovery for you. I guess maybe teh good news is they know what is causing the pain now, right?