Quote: Remind me again now..what's the deal with the scheduled sex? Is that still on, or did you scrap it?
I'ts on the shelf for right now. But I have been toying with putting it back in effect. You know...one of those things where the timing was ok the first time...but now it may be better.
Previously I think he bucked the schedule...he felt that I was "controlling" him w/it, that's why he started to come up with reasons around the 1st of the year to avoid it. That was a frustrating point for me...but it was right about that time that our insurance changed, which caused us to change his therapist to our now new couples counselor who we really like.
Since he stopped seeing his IC he has initiated on his own too...and his behavior is beginning to become much more sexual in nature around me too (as I've been letting you all know ). So I really have been toying with bringing up the "schedule" again, but I think this time I will take this approach. I will pick one night for me....the other night he can choose and it can be any day of the week. That way it can float if he wishes and he will have control over the when aspect of it.
). So I really have been toying with bringing up the "schedule" again, but I think this time I will take this approach. I will pick one night for me....the other night he can choose and it can be any day of the week. That way it can float if he wishes and he will have control over the when aspect of it.
