Dear BLONDEQT1, How do you find out that he is communicating? Are you actively looking and then ignore it? Do you stumble accross evidence? How does that affect you when you know your committment level is 100% and his is less than that? These questions are what I struggle with. I'm the last line of defense for kids not going through the big D. She loves her kids but I guess I don't understand this emotional hold she has on OM. Thanx in advance for your insights
