Please help! I don't really know what to do. My wife has been seeing another peron for 5 months. I have perservered through all of this to date. I am truly interested in saving my marriage. I'm 38, been together 20 years, and been married almost 15 years. I have 3 boys 9,7, & 5. She has finally decided to finally "try". I'm uncertain of her level of committment but it isn't very high. I've employed the 180 move and this actually got her to "try". Again her interest level has dropped but she's still here. We still live under the same roof but it's like we're separated. She said she broke it off withthe OP and would not resume contact. I think she talked to him yesterday. I have been continually following the 180 approach because of previous sucess. I'm concerned that since she misses him so much and is obviously still thinking about him, what am I to do? I haven't even got her to a resonable committment level. I fell that if I continue with the 180, she'll just opt for him. I'm trying to make myself as appealing as possible but it doesn't seem sto be working. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!
