I have a comment on something that worked for me in doing a 180. You had said in a prevous post that your H said that you weren't passionate enough, well turn on the passion, I know that is easy to say but if that is something that is missing turn it up girl, he maybe getting that from the OW. Speaking from experiance, my H went and found someone else to have fun with because he thought he could not do it with me. We have since found how to have fun together and he no longer sees the OW.
