Yes she is open to going to counseling with me. We have gone in the past. Right now the counselor that we are seeing wants her to go on her own for a few sessions and then see us again. I don't completely understand the rational behind this but I really like this C so I trust his judgement.
As far as her seeing a doctor, I think she does have an appointment coming up with her OB so I will ask her to tell her doctor about her low libido.
The thing that frustrates me about this is the fact that she does know that this bothers me. We used to fight about it all of the time. Now we don't fight about it because I know that fighting doesn't help and have gone in a completely different direction to try and help us with this but even that's not helping. It's been one cheeseless tunnel after another.
I haven't read SSM yet but I have read a couple of Michele's other books and have found them to be of great help. i had actually planned on stopping and picking it up on my way home from work today. I don't know if she will be open to reading it but it is something that I will approach her about.
