No she gets into while we are ML. She (not to be too graphic) gets pretty loud and really into it.
Her affair was both EA and PA. It started as an EA that led to a PA. She was, self admittedly, stupid.
She has repeatedly said that she enjoys it while we are ML but when we are not she doesn't think about it or want it. It's really tough to get her going in that direction. I have tried just about everything I can think of to no avail. She believes that our low sex marriage is normal because when she talks to her friends that are in long term relationships they all feel the same way she does and they have a lack of wont to do ML as well. I can see her point that it might be kind of normal but it certainly isn't a good normal (in my opinion). TO be honest I don't think that I am asking for much, considering that we are young and don't have kids to take care of. more than once every couple of weeks or more than once a week isn't that much to ask of.
