Thanks for answering the questions, I appreciate that.
There's one definite thing I want to point out though k?
Quote: That was my fault for neglecting certain things and I have paid dearly for it.
Her having an EA was NOT your fault, it was her choice and it was a BAD choice. Yes, you may have neglected her needs...but you did not make her choose an affair. Do not accept the blame for that. I understand where you are coming from when you say it was your fault...but I will say once again...IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, IT WAS HER CHOICE...and leave it at that.
Also, since you mentioned she has only had 3 sexual partners (including yourself) that leads me to believe she has very limited experience sexually speaking. Please do not take offense to this, this is an honest question I need you to think about....has she ever really had an "O" w/you?
You are both really pretty young still...and just to let you know...I used to be LD myself. I didn't discover my own sexuality until I was just a bit older than the two of you are now (around 29-30). I had limited experience and had never had an "O"...and I had been married twice by then.
It is definitely possible because she's had limited experience that she's not discovered her own sexuality yet. So how does one go about that? Well it's different for everyone. But I can try to respond more to that later.
