mdmiller & GEL, sorry if I seemed like I grump. I am sure that is why my W sought EA as well. I was curious about the head monitor thing though, because NOPkins has made it clear that feelings and sayings are quite different during and after EA/PA.
If she was always LD, Gel is right about the need for more details. I am obviously in no shape to give advice. I now know that my LD is multifaceted, and it is a puzzle still missing a few pieces.