I'm new to this section of the forum so here's my sitch in a nutshell.
My W is 25 and I am 26. We have been married for almost 2 years and together for 6. She had an EA/PA that ended 3 months ago and we had been seperated for almost 4 months with her movnig back in about a month ago. Things have been going pretty well for us since she moved back in. The lack of sex and physical intimacy was a problem before the affair and remains one now.
We have discussed this at length and she has told me that I am absolutely not the problem and that she finds me attractive, blah blah blah but she just has no sexual appetite. Like i said she didn't before the affair but now in the aftermath this makes me a little unhappy. I am obviously HD and she is LD. She never thinks about sex, never wants to have sex, never fantasizes about sex and isn't very experimental either. basically we are on opposite ends of the spectrum and I am not sure what to do. I know that I will not be happy in the long term in a low sex marriage and am not sure what to do. I am hoping that our marital counseling will help somewhat but I am doubtful.
Any suggestions would be helpful?
Oh and as far as low sex I mean maybe a couple of times a month and since the affair ended 3 times since January. it's more than a little frustrating.
