T--congrats, it's always great to see another success story and that DBing does work. I appreciate your attitude about giving the benefit of the doubt, I really try to do that too. It is hard to forget the past but I can forgive. I feel better about me. My H has been home for a month now and it is slow going but I can already tell it is going to be better than the first 9 years we were together. 11 months apart and working on myself really helped.
