Do nothing but the GET A LIFE....go on with your life....

be pleasant...be yourself
make yourself happy
don't do anything for the divorce
DO NOT PURSUE him
be less available
be less predictable
don't explain or justify yourself
don't date, but do let him wonder

again...don't explain or justify yourself...
don't keep doing everything for him (laundry, etc), but don't explain or justify yourself


if you find yourself emotional and feel like breaking down.........and you will...........have a backup plan..........don't let him see you sweat........have your gameface on!


sg
Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001