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Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!! #453249 07/12/06 12:45 PM
Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805 sgctxok OP Member
OP sgctxok Member Joined: Feb 2001 Posts: 10,805	Hi flip....I'm sorry to hear about his little anouncement.... there are no always and nevers.... When you're in the LRT, it means don't pursue....because you've been pursuing and it is not only not working, it's making things worse. OR talks in that light, tend to do the same thing. Often, the spouse will try to trigger that reaction, by 'baiting' you into the talk and into the reaction to convince themselves your changes haven't stuck. How did you react to his news? sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001

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HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	04/01/05 02:40 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	onwardandup	04/01/05 08:12 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	onwardandup	04/01/05 08:17 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	TAGIII	04/01/05 09:54 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	04/01/05 01:27 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	midwest	04/30/05 02:03 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	04/30/05 10:54 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Cheryl44	05/01/05 11:21 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	DERaven	05/01/05 08:58 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Cheryl44	05/01/05 09:48 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	DERaven	05/02/05 01:17 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	TJBrk	05/02/05 02:12 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Just_Me	05/02/05 01:46 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Cheryl44	05/02/05 09:09 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Jamesjohn	02/10/06 03:35 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	02/10/06 07:21 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	IamTJ	02/10/06 07:37 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	02/10/06 08:41 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Jamesjohn	02/10/06 10:08 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	IamTJ	02/11/06 03:49 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Becca1975	02/11/06 04:32 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	02/11/06 04:33 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	HjimmyK	02/11/06 07:12 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Jamesjohn	07/11/06 05:00 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	flip	07/11/06 09:56 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	07/12/06 12:45 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	flip	07/12/06 04:43 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	07/12/06 04:57 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	flip	07/12/06 07:01 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	07/12/06 08:37 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	12/09/08 05:08 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Tomato	12/09/08 01:52 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Tomato	12/09/08 01:59 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	VeronicaV	12/09/08 03:51 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	likingMEagain	12/20/08 05:03 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	healthydad	12/24/08 05:27 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	dbmod	11/21/10 03:01 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	Jamesjohn	11/04/07 04:20 PM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	sgctxok	12/17/07 08:18 AM
Re: HOW TO "NOT GET BAITED" into an OR talk!!!!	dbmod	10/02/08 03:46 AM

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