ok - this is a concept I'm not very clear on. Are you saying when you're doing the LRT you should avoid ALL relationship talks? I've been (mostly) doing the LRT on my H for about 2 months and a couple of nights ago he said to me "we never talk about our R". So I did - telling him I didn't want the divorce, but I wouldn't stop him if that's what he needed to do to be happy.
And then he told me he's having an affair.
He got me good with that one! Talk about a way to shoot your spouse down in flames.
So in future should I try to avoid any R talks?
You cannot teach a man anything; you can only help him discover it in himself. Galileo Galilei
