Hi,
I did get baited, hook, line and sinker just a couple days ago...
H: Do you miss me, I miss you.
I said "sometimes..."
What was I thinking
Tonight when H pushed the R topic I tried honesty.
I told H this wasn't a good topic since we were both tired and I wasn't ready to discuss it. Amazingly H wasn't mad or anything.
A quick subject change helped save the evening.

Are there other things? This will come up again...3 times this week already.