Well, I wasn't gonna go there to begin with but, we had other issues to clear up and somehow it just happened. I was honest about my feelings. I told him I wasn't looking for someone else to fall in my bed at this point. I said I missed him too. I also told him if he came up to me tommorrow and said "I want to come back" that I would really have to think about it. I also told him that we would have to get to know each other again. He seems to be really confused. I also told him I would be there as a friend and always want him as a friend. He hasn't retreated to his cave yet so I guess I didn't scare him away again. He also commented that he wished he was at the point were I am. With my inner peace, knowing what I want etc. He also commented on my changes. I see a guy who really is lost. As much as I want to help him as a wife, I know that would push him farther away. That, and I told him somethings he needs to figure out for himself and not let people tell him what is good for him. I don't know if that was DBing per se but, it made me feel better. LOL! Yep we ended up in bed together a couple of days after this conversation but it was good. I have learned to let go. ML didn't change my outlook or make me feel used or weird. I think he is still on the fence which, to me is a good thing. Our friendship has really grown over the last few days but, while I am cautiously optimistic about our future together, I know that we will be friends to the end. Sorry for rambling.

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. -Philo