OK....so you've been good emotionally, a little detached, doing positive things for yourself, really involved in your own life, making improvements, you've got a KILLER 180......and a great resolve and plan to not start an OR talk.
This 180 is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO gooood......that your spouse is off guard. He/She notices SOMETHING different. And it's uncomfortable. You are being cool enough, that he/she feels pretty free to test you, push your buttons, flirt....even get you in bed....you played it REALLY WELL........and THEN.....
(jaws background music)
"So, didya miss me..." "It's ok, how do you really feel"
yada yada yada
You're determined but SCARED NOT TO BE HONEST.....THIS COULD BE YOUR CHANCE.....a solidation of the fact you're meant to be together......a commitment burning.....
AND yet.....you have a little birdie in your head saying....DON'T DO IT.....It's like the angel on one shoulder and devil on the other.....
You KNOW D(&*)&* WELL IT'S MORE OF THE SAME.....LOGICALLY, but ..................WHADDYA DO?
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BEEN THERE???? DONE THAT??????
HOW did you survive?
WHAT did you do differently? (when, where?)
Tell us YOUR solutions................or.........get help HERE!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
