Journey,
How much of a hindrance is the HDH/LDW thing?

One of two things happens to me while hearing/reading self help stuff with that slant:

1. I feel like an Outcast Female but try to reverse the genders and 'hear' the message anyway.

2. I feel uncomfortable because I spend too much time wondering if H is feeling emasculated because this is not his 'experience'.

Is there much focus on the HDH/LDW element?

thanks!