No DVD update...kids are home from school this week and we are leaving on our trip on Wed ( coming home Sun). H and I have both been working on the marriage, catching each other when we mess up, and moving on. I still have a tendency to sabotage the progress because of old resentements and fear of being close. My goal right now is to have a loving marriage and nice family life...I have lowered my expectations for a real passionate marriage and keep working on "good." So I am passionate about having a good sex life.
My H is coming through and initiating on our planned nites, and then some. He asked me yesterday when I would like to do something again because he wants to save something for the trip...I liked this because he is thinking about my needs and how I would like our SL to play out.
I will get back to the tape after the break...hope I can put the knowledge to the test and not sabotage my vacation.
