keeping this thread updated...watched a half hr of the DVD last nite...my H actually was the one to suggest it, which helps me to see he is trying.
Michele has a list of tips for mean and women to help bridge the gender gap. I'll just list them here, but on the tape she goes through each one in detail.
Tips for Men 1. Spend time together 2. Talk to her 3. Remember the little things
Tips for Women 1. Don't judge him 2. Talk to women friends 3. Be brief and to the point 4. Focus on your sexual relationship
Again, the DVD is slanted towards HDM and LDW, with Michele emphasizing that men's need for sex is not just about phsyical release, that it's about feeling loved and connected, and for women to try to go along because of the many benefits and because they will likely enjoy it once they get started. She did mention at the end that it could work in reverse in some marriages.
In my sich, my H wants sex, but there are times when he has difficulty with arousal, and he puts pressure on himself, or feels pressure from me. We have calmed down from last weeks sex marathon and have decided to go back to the schedule.
