We didn't get a chance to watch the DVD last nite, but we did ML for the third nite in a row...very nice indeed. We both agree that sex 2x/week would suit us well on a consistent basis. I really like keeping it on a schedule...less anxiety, I can get myself in a sexy mind frame by taking a bath and reading an erotic chapter of a book, and I'm not so stirred up all week. This is all "doable" for H, and if he wants to initiate more then great...I will not reject him.
I feel like I am getting at a good balnce right now.