She's going to move out, Gabriel. She hasn't yet. But because he told me she was, I believe it to be fairly soon. He wouldn't have told me if it wasn't fairly soon, but it's still exciting!

I've got my birthday coming up soon and my next R goal is to have him stop overnight, hopefully then, but if not, then within the next month.

Then my goal after I have achieved that one (which I will) is to have him tell our family that we are together (including my mother and ex-ow ).

Then my third goal is to move from this tiny place and get a bigger place with him and the kids.

These I intend to be in the relatively short term future (within a year I hope). I have other R goals but they are too far in the future to discuss yet.

I think I'm doing quite well as I will go to my 5 year old's ballet the Monday after next. It's been arranged He actually agreed for a change.

Re the photos, I got them back. The police found the man and the van and recovered all the films.
I think what happened was, he wanted the van for something so he drove off with it. I don't think he was bothered about the photos.
Anyway, they arrested him so I got my pictures back! There are none of me but thanks for asking They were all of my dd's doing yoga, so I'm glad they weren't lost as I really like them.

Jo.