That is more complicated than I had imagined Jo. Of course I never checked out the female version of "donating" before.

Thanks for the help on my thread Jo. I hope none of my stuff gets you down much or takes away from your progress.

Although i don't reply much on your thread, I do read here and other places you post. Often I feel like e-mailing your H and say have OW move out in 10 days and go to Jo's life coach and be a family.

I know I can't do that and If I did e-mail your H with my suggestions, it would not help much.

I tried to help the deliquent boys in the grouphome I worked in without much success. It seem everyone has to make mistakes for themselves. What a pitty. (time waster)

I like to think that many of the answers are in books and if we read the correct books we could fix the R quick. Some people do, what is wrong with us? Why re-invent the wheel when we can read how one is made and how it works on paper, then practice making one and practice using it.

Be well Jo.

OG Lou