You and H are in a good trust-building place, it seems - with H able to tell you about going over to X-OWs instead of trying to hide it. Sounds like there is some financial pressure that I hope lightens at least a bit soon. Yet even there I'm not picking up any bickering about it; instead the two of you seem to be sharing info and supporting one another on your career pursuits. These are big positives!
I wouldn't push too hard about him remembering your AOS like vacuming. You know you did and that's what matters. Pressing for some acknowledgement might backfire.
Quote: DD4 shouted 'I love you!' at me as she was leaving, so I shouted 'I love you!' back at them and blew them a kiss.
. This was great to see. I'm confident that your girls are so ready to love and be loved by you! By the way, I'm confused by your DD numbering system. Is "DD1" the oldest, and so on? [Just a though: most of us on this BB use D then age to allow others to better pick up/advise on developmentally approp. themes or issues, as this would differ from oldest to youngest. Like a 12yo D would be "D12." ]
