I'll be onto your sitch in a bit. H is due here in an hour (2 hours given his punctuality) and I have some housework to catch up on first, so I'll check out your posts after that
I think he does love me, yes. I took him off my msn after that R talk and took his jewellery off me and I think he got the message a little.
I've decided to act 'grey' when we don't see each other, i.e only essential contact about children or work and no chit chat. Then when he sees me, plenty of chit chat, me looking gorgeous and acting like the last of the red hot lovers.
This is what brought him round unannounced the other night so it might work.