Quote: After a bit, he asked me if I still liked him. I thought, damn it, this is making him feel rejected, so I said yes I do and yes I want you too, but you sure as hell aren't going to tell me you can't be faithful and then disappear!
No, Jo it's called making him be responsable to the relationship.
Good for you. Reasureing to him and also letting him you will not be a doormat. Make him buy into the relationship like you did above. No free lunch.
I liked your relationship agrement and posted a computer parody version of relationship problems after your post.