I think I need more time with my kid's as to me they still feel like strangers when they're here only the first time I did overnight on mother's day it wasn't completely wonderful so I am in 2 minds about it. I want us to parent them as equals rather than he says when I can have them then the rest of the time I am not involved.
Re DD4 - I put her in her bedroom and turned radio up in living room because I felt like I was getting overly stressed and it's a good idea to just be in another room when that happens. I was going to cuddle afterwards but she'd fallen asleep.
Thanks for your comments re the sex. This is the dilemma I have as everyone has a different opinion. It felt natural to me and I can't say I ever felt used over this issue, just in relation to children issues.
