Jo, Your are an inspiration to many of us and we love you. So it is with great trepidation that I tell you that having sex with a controller is not something you put up for a vote. Jo, JRB and I have been there. We've been controllers and it's a terrible pathology. Our spouses gave us a wake-up call and we sought help. You are too precious to fall prey to a controller again. You've exorcised many demons but there's one left, that of a pleaser "Women who try too Hard" Dr. Kevin Leman. I know this will come across as tough love but we here at DB love you and don't want to see you hurt. You decide what to do and pray along with all of us that our decisions will, whatever the outcome, serve us and our loved ones well.
