Quote: Yes I know he still sees me as his. I'm not sure about the sex as he said ILY for the first time in 3 years during sex so it obviously has some benefit. Maybe we should have a poll.
HOW MANY PEOPLE ON HERE THINK I SHOULD STILL BE SLEEPING WITH HIM?
I have thought of maybe limiting it or showing less physical interest in him. He currently sleeps with me anything from once a week to once a fortnight.
I wonder why you are still sleeping with him. It sounds as if it is at his whim, another control mechanism. I understand that everyone has physical needs, and you might be concerned that denying him would drive him away, but it just seems degrading to continue to put up with the domination and control and still be available for him physically.
