Yes, indeed! No romance and lots of GAL for Gabriel. Thinks that make her go "hmmm." She 'found out' I've picked up the guitar again (S5 mentioned it) and that made her head bob back in surprise. She mentioned getting one for me once in a while, but it never happened, and I was too busy playing dad and H to pursue it during our M.
In terms of debt payoff, you've read my mind! I already backpedaled during mediation to take on about 70%of our debt, and will tackle this rather quickly (less than 1 year). At that time, I hope to help W with what remains of hers, and if it is gone, to start gifting her with extra amounts 'just because' with no strings attached. Just the right thing to do, as she stood by my side during grad school and training. I definitely don't want the mother of our son struggling financially.
